Minutes with a Marvel: Emily Lagreid

Emily + her daughters, Caroline and Lily.

When time is scarce, I'd rather tell a bit about a brilliant woman than miss an opportunity to share an inspiring story. So, I've been peppering some wonderful women with four simple questions in the hopes that the answers are immediate and effortless (of course I'd love to sit down and interview but that's not always in the cards!). MINUTES WITH A MARVEL is meant to briefly highlight an outstanding lady and share her quick responses to meaningful questions that might inspire you or at least get you thinking...

The questions:
1) Where do you get your energy/what motivates you?
2) Who (other women) inspires you? Or are there any specific social media feeds that inspire you?
3) Pie-in-the-sky dream or ambition?
4) Go-to recipe


Today's MARVEL is Emily Lagreid. 

A handful of years ago, the hustle and bustle of her high-powered, big-city job coupled with the desire to raise her family to the tune of a simpler life prompted Emily Lagreid and her husband to make a big change. Dreaming of a better life, they devised a plan to relocate their then-family of four from Seattle to eastern Washington, find jobs, and purchase acreage to build their dream home. The process took years—they lived with family then rented a home while thoughtfully constructing their retreat atop literal amber waves of grain. And Emily found a flexible job, enabling her to balance her career and family life, which now includes a third little. Her story is inspiring not just because she took a risk and made such huge changes but because she had a vision and faith that everything in her life prepared her for this grand adventure. Now instead of sitting in traffic, Emily watches the sun set on the beautiful life she and her husband have created…crops, chickens, dogs, babies, and all.  

1) WHERE DO YOU FIND YOUR ENERGY?

“Anyone who knows me would say I get energy from my favorite pastime, napping. Yet I am raising a 3-year-old who thinks sleep is overrated. So now I find my energy in the mornings. I've made a habit of starting my day with a cup of hot tea, my favorite candle burning, and my kids cuddled around me on the couch. In the summer we do this on the front porch and watch the sunrise together. Listening to their sleepy little voices tell me about their dreams from the night before helps me reset on what this season of my life is all about. A lot of my motivation comes from the example I want to set for my children. I want them to take risks, chase their dreams, and be satisfied in finding their own definition of happiness. So when doubt creeps in, I focus on those things and find new energy and confidence in living the life that's right for my family and no one else's.”

 

2) OTHER WOMEN WHO INSPIRE YOU?

“I'm inspired by moms who aren't scared to chase their dreams while raising babies. Kikkan Randall was a standout high school cross-country skier while I was growing up in Alaska. Now she's a mom in her mid-30s like me. But she isn't like me. She won America's first gold in cross-country skiing at the 2018 winter Olympics, as a mom at 35!  I watched the race with my two daughters and cried as I told them that she was a mom who was living out her ultimate dream. She's simply amazing. She has no reservations about who she is (the pink hair that my girls love) and a great model of resilience.

“Also, one of my oldest friends dreams of writing her own book so she set the goal to read 100 books in 2018. She's read 81 books so far this year, while raising three kiddos! AWESOME! She doesn't watch TV and reads at naptime. She reminds me that passion can be in so many different areas of your life and that you choose how to prioritize your time when chasing your dream. She also gives the best book recommendations. She gave Ghosteda great review, so it’s next on my list at the library.”

3) PIE-IN-THE-SKY DREAM OR AMBITION? 

“To be a hobby farmer or run an outdoor pre-school.”

4) GO-TO RECIPE?

“Zuppa Toscana soup.”

MINUTES WITH A MARVEL: Kali Davis

When time is scarce, I'd rather tell a bit about a brilliant woman than miss an opportunity to share an inspiring story. So, I've been peppering some wonderful women with four simple questions in the hopes that the answers are immediate and effortless (of course I'd love to sit down and interview but that's not always in the cards!). MINUTES WITH A MARVEL is meant to briefly highlight an outstanding lady and share her quick responses to meaningful questions that might inspire you or at least get you thinking...

The questions:
1) Where do you get your energy/what motivates you?
2) Who (other women) inspires you? Or are there any specific social media feeds that inspire you?
3) Pie-in-the-sky dream or ambition?
4) Go-to recipe

My first guest, Kali Davis, a footwear product line manager at Nike, went above and beyond her call to "quickly text me back with your answers!" and emailed me such thoughtful responses that I just had to share the whole thing here.

Kali is always lifting others up. Talented beyond measure, the thing that makes Kali so remarkable is the way she makes others feel. If you’ve ever been around one of those people who lights up a room, well, Kali is like that but magnified. Kali is imaginative, motivating, and always does the little things, whether as a co-worker or a friend. From creating office fitness challenges with incentives and prizes, to sending “just because I’m thinking of you” snail mail, the small things are never lost on Kali. Despite working full-time and being a mom, she always makes time for friends. So the next time you want to say, “I’m just too busy for...x,” I hope the spirit of Kali encourages you to send one more positive email, pick up the phone for a chat, or compliment one more stranger—you never know whose day you’ll make.

1) Where do you get your energy/what motivates you?

What I know about myself is that I get energy from the big things but also the really small things, no less significant to me, that can sometimes get overlooked. 

FAMILY: Being with my daughter, husband and family is the number one thing that energizes me and fills me up.  There is nothing that makes me feel more like myself than making my daughter laugh, showing her something new, watching her learn or just feeling the weight of her little body on mine when we snuggle before bed.  It’s SO centering, makes me feel purpose and excited for the future.  Ironic that the little person who energizes me the most also makes me feel the MOST exhausted! 

EXERCISE:  I LOVE exercising and it is an absolute imperative in my feelings of balance, physical/mental/emotional health, energy level and overall well-being.  It’s a time when other things can fall out of my mind and I can be really present.  I love that feeling of pushing myself to the limit and always challenging what you think you are capable of.  A hard workout always makes me feel refreshed, like I have washed the slate clean and start again.  Bonus: working out with my besties---it’s the ultimate in filling my cup!

CONNECTING WITH MY FRIENDS: Whether it’s going on a trip or adventure, having a fun dinner or drinks out, working out together, meeting for coffee or just talking on the phone or texting, my best girlfriends are a huge source of energy and positivity in my life.  I am inspired constantly by the amazing things my friends are accomplishing in all realms of their lives.  I am lifted up by them but also grounded by them and am infinitely thankful for those who I can 100% be myself with.  It’s really special.

I think “connecting” versus spending time with friends is a better description.  With all the other responsibilities we have at this stage in life from being a mom/wife/daughter and sister, it isn’t always possible to spend as much time together as I would like. But I cannot undervalue how chats on the phone, texts, sharing photos is still such a source of energy for me.

WHEN I AM HELPING SOMEONE ELSE: Oftentimes, for me, this means being a source of support and listening to my friends and family.  When I can help provide advice or guidance, or make someone important to me feel heard or understood-that’s an amazing feeling.

I also feel this same sentiment translated into my work.  Being a good listener, and thought-partner in solving complicated problems makes me feel proud and accomplished.

WORK ACCOMPLISHMENTS:  I work really hard in my job and always hold myself to a high-standard. Realizing accomplishments both big and small in the workplace helps me feel validated in my work and keeps me engaged and positive.  Finding energy in this is crucial, even more so since becoming a Mom, because I know that time I am at my job is time I am not spending with Ellery.  I need those little wins.

BEING IN NATURE.

2) Who (other women) inspires you? Or are there any specific social media feeds that inspire you?

All my girlfriends inspire me DAILY for a million different reasons.  I am inspired by their abilities to balance all the crazy demands of this life and still create space to be amazing forces in my life.  I have friends who are stay-at-home Moms who inspire me by their selflessness, patience and commitment to their family.  I have friends who have recently gone back to finish getting their college degree and get accepted into nursing school all while balancing a newborn baby at home.   I have friends that work full-time and still make being a Mom the number 1 priority.  I have friends who are incredible career women and show me what it means to lead with confidence, humility, respect, smarts and SPUNK.  I cannot pick among these women, but their reach is likely much larger then they know.

I would scream it from the rooftops and could care less about the clichés, but my Mom is my NUMBER one inspiration.  To know her is to be better…it just is. I can think of no better word than BADASS to describe my Mom.

When my dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer 7 years ago, she showed a side of herself and a side of strength that I did not know was possible.  She devoted 100% of herself, her being and her purpose to my Dad, my brother and myself.  I have never been more proud of and inspired by her.  Now, she is working through her next chapter.  There is nothing she can’t do, or at least that she doesn’t try to do herself first.  She called me the other day just to tell me that she got my Dad’s 22 foot fishing boat out of the water, onto the boat trailer and driven back home all by herself.     

My friend and Mentor Kathy Gomez.  I have known Kathy for 10 years and she has been a bright spot in my life from that point on.  I truly believe meeting her has changed the trajectory of my life.  She is an incredibly smart, funny, inspiring, influencing, encouraging and creative leader at a large company, but she is also an amazing Mom to three amazing girls.  Kathy spreads joy, positivity and energy. If you ask her how she is doing, 99 times out of 10 she says great!  She has been a pivotal person in my success as both a career woman and Mom.   

3) Pie-in-the-sky dream or ambition? 

My pie in the sky dream is to find a way to blend my love of working and being challenged with my desire to have more time with my daughter and family.  

My fall back plan?  Open a gym with an adjacent coffee shop with EXCELLENT baked goods so I can share my immense love for these three things with the rest of the world.

4) Go-to recipe?

Burrito bowls. Just a hodgepodge of leftover veggies in the fridge...but I always make cilantro-lime rice.